Phew, Gazelle . . . I'm exhausted just trying to follow your post. That sounds grueling!!!
Tell me, how are a fly and tree similar?

Living organisms or something like that?
I didn't like my mom or dad either, but I loved them. Sounds contradictory, I suppose . . . but they did the best THEY could.
Glad it's over and you will be hopefully getting valid results this time.
Good luck!
Cherie
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