Hi Mary, I'm so happy for you and your family for having a wonderful wedding. Your daughter will never forget it and YOU for your loving gift of making it her special day. Our daughter has been married 8 years now and I still remember the next day, feeling like I'd been hit by a truck. We had planned on getting away a couple day later with out of town friends to the grand canyon. I just had to ask for another day in bed. We then went on our journey to the North Rim and stayed in a two bedroom log cabin with a bath in between. Just after getting in bed(2 twin beds) a mouse ran across the floor, I ran in my girfriends room and made her husband sleep in my bed with my husband and the mouse. The cabin manager caught the mouse the next day while we were gone. (smile) I said how is it I'm in the woods with a mouse and my daughter is on her honeymoon in the cayman islands? What kinds of surgery are you having? I hope all goes well, I'll be think of you. Loretta