Anne, I'm PPMS and often have to go PP and who would of thought two rooms could feel so far apart. Having one usable hand meant getting pants and underwear down with one hand standing on 1 good leg. means wetness coming fotr sure. I wear a pad all the time. I can sleep thru the night often with no trips to the bathroom. 14 years ago had to go but not so often, had better control, did ok. It got worse and worse and My PCP said it was my age and birthing twins. I insisted it was neurological, she sent me to a neurologist who with other tests declared me to have MS. In the chair now, seems a little better, standing and gravity were making it worse. I never remitt, but right now it's doable, but don't drink much when out and know where bathrooms are. Self-cathing is in my future and I better teach DH how too. Vesicare does help me.