A urologist might be able to point you to some meds that could help.

I too have stock in the femine pad market. So far, for me, the following advice from mine has helped a little. Do krugels (sp?) every day. Go to the restroom about every two hours when awake whether or not you feel like it. The reason behind the many trips to the restroom is too make sure the bladder doesn't overfill to the OMG point.

Hope you feel better soon.