I totally agree B2Y . Especially since I'm the one my extended family and friends go to with ALL of their problems. They wear me out and don't even realize it. I guess that's the price I pay for being the oldest child and umm a wee bit bossy, LOL. I love coming here where I'm not expected to have answers for everything. . I try to go to the 'other place' once in a while but it just feels so cold there now. NT feels like home .