Originally Posted by Burntmarshmallow

I have question since its been mentioned I think Alffe mom maybe not sure but .... It is okay to ask how ones plans to do it? how do you know doing that isnt going to seem like a dare or something when its bought up? should you do this ...ask how one plans to do this to others online? or it seems at least to me it would be better to do that face to face. I am just thinking of a few on here and maybe if i had asked or something it may have helped or stopped an attempt or it can ? or can if the oppertunity comes up in furture,
if that makes any sense. what do you do when they tell you the plans they have how do you help? how do you stop the plans? I want to help better then i am or have been able to.I feel like i let another down and am really really sad that even thought i tryed .. it didnt seem to matter or help that much.