You let her take the coffee machine

sorry just funnin ya.. You may find some of the adjustments to your liking, so hang in there Earl, but by all means Man get that java machine before you offset the balance of the Java gods, Earl have you tried the game forum, its a good way to spend time and some of those games actually make you think I do this when i got the insomnia real bad at night. Lot of us have been where you are including me I raised two babies on my own till i remarried ten yrs later so if any time you need some one to vent to or just talk do not hesitate
game forum link
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum104.html