I have been trying all day to make the words come to find the right words to say what i need to but I am just to mixed up and confused. It seems like it is all how each person see it at any given time. One could say they helped end anothers suffering and anguish yet not really if even more suffered and are still sufering years and years later in their absence including the one who helped. I know that might not make any sense to anyone but me and that my words are all wrong and I probly shouldnt even be posting . but i think it is one of those things that it is how a person looks at it on any given day and that it can change each time they look at the topic .