Welcome to Neuro Talk, sorry about why you found us but am glad you did. You will find many helpful and kind people here, jump into the forums and post questions and answer too, enjoy explore and i shall post a couple links down below, one for main index of all forums and other for the OCD forum, good luck with your mother. and again welcome to NT
here is a link to the OCD Forum,
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum50.html
follow this one to the main forum index
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/index.php
if you look at the bottom of the page you will find some forums you can post and ask questions there to hopefully get some advice. and the emotional support one is nice too