((((Hippiechick)))))...so glad to see you...and so very sorry you had to go through that. I just want people to know that it is also extremely, and I can't express this enough, important to let your family KNOW exactly what you want and that they fully understand and agree with it. Because if they don't, and a person ends up in this kind of situation, or something like it, the family can change everything, and the person, being helpless, can't do anything about it.... I have seen that happen