Happy Birthday to you!
BJ, I've taken Effexor before and it does sound like you are experiencing withdrawl symptoms. I hope you can find a new doctor soon. It took me 3 tries to find a good fit for me with a psychiatrist and it really made a difference for me. I feel like he is definitely on my side and he is willing to listen to me when I have an appointment with him.
I hope you have done something you enjoy today.
take care ...
(((BJ)))