Thank you Judy! I'm sorry to read that you're going through a similar thing to me but it's nice to know that you, and others, understand what I've been going through.

I found out the name of the herbal tea that started with "H" that my doctor recommended. It's actually called Epilobium Tea, so I don't know where she got the "H" from.

I'm with you on the pad thing. I've been buying packets of full continence briefs for night use, and using stick on ones for day time use..... unless I have to be away from home for a while.... the I use the briefs.

Lately I've discovered that it's cheaper to buy them by the carton, and since I order on line and have them delivered, I'm so glad the boxes are "discretely" packaged.

I think the tea is rather expensive at $25 for 12 tea bags, so unless I find a cheap stockist to order them from, I probably will have to give them a miss.