(((BJ)))....I don't know about your grief counselor....but to tell you to 'move on' just does not sit right with me. To suppress what we feel is to cause more 'dis-ease' Getting in touch with your feelings, expressing them, and not feeling rejected by it, is essential to healing. And that will take time. I hope your future sessions go better. Please know that you are not rejected here, and please keep expressing. It is so important! I hear your pain...