Sorry to hear about your husband. I've had pcs for over 3 years, and am still going through meds to get things straightened out. It's really just guess and check with medications.

I know how hard it can be on relationships, especial the one without pcs - my last gf had a harder time coping then I did, but I never really understood what she went through I guess.

There are weeks when I feel great and getting better, then the next week I feel like I'm back to were I started. And yeah, I've definitely felt stuck in a hole plenty of times.

What always helps me through the bad ones is just taking a break and spending time with a good friend - just having plain old fun. For example, just watching a movie my arm around a gf or going on a long road trip with the guys always makes a good day.