My wife and I have a baby girl, and i feel guilty because i feel i don't help out enough. My wife is great, and does a great job trying to understand how i feel and whats going on. I wonder often if my family and co-workers understand what I'm going through. I read that spoon analogy - spot on!, and almost started crying (i'm at work, and in a very "macho" business- crying probably not the best idea right now.) anyways....thanks for that link. here's to hoping everyone has a good day.