I too am sorry to hear of the troubles and strains you and family are facing.

I am sending positive thoughts to you and yours. And prayers filled with hope strength, and love. May God guide you and all of your family into a less stressful place . May God provide you with the reascores that you so very much need right now. also I pray God will hold you dh with gentle care and lead him to get medical treatment.
Thank you God .
PEACE
BMW