Dolfinz, I am sorry about your cat. We had to put my cat, Sammy, to sleep 2 years ago. She was also 13 and very ill. The most difficult part was that my daughter who was 3 was very attached to her. My comfort now is that she and I talk about her. she likes to remember the things that Sammy liked, all the things that made her happy. the one thing that was difficult was trying not to be too upset in front of my daughter. I wanted her to understand that Sammy was too sick to stay with us. I didn't give too much information, only that Sammy wasn't in pain any more. My prayers are with you.

I hope you are feeling better from your return from your trip but it sounds like you had a great time.

Best wishes for a pain free day for everyone, Linda