Charlie, I haven't had a chance to welcome you to NeuroTalk.....Welcome
I don't know what happened or what was said but, please give NeuroTalk and it's members a chance. NeuroTalk is a wonderful place full of wonderful people.
There are many (me

) who can sometimes (many times) say something before thinking. It's called "open mouth insert foot."
Charlie, I really don't know of anyone here who will hold a grudge and any problems are usually resolved with compassion and understanding.
I hope to see you still hanging around.