Sorry about the dx, Thumper.

Even if you've waited some time to hear this, you will go through a period of grieving; shock, denial, bargaining, anger, etc. I made some irrational decisions in that first year, so cut yourself some slack if things don't go along as you might hope for a while.

This is a great support network, with many caring and knowledgable people. Glad you found us.

Cherie