hi Thelma
I cant really add much to the excellent responses you have already received....but just wanted to say that I too hope you will be feeling better soon.
I also want to echo that the mods here are first and foremost members, and that we see our additional role as service to the community, hence our decision to be known as a Community Support Team rather than moderators.
I hope that you and all other members will always be comfortable speaking with us as that is what we like best about being here....just being able to interact in the community as our member selves