It really doesn't sound like many of the fibro posts that I have read.
extreme fatigue, skin/touch sensitivity, all over aches and pains, flu type feelings and the specific tender points are usual for FM.

So your spinal MRI showed no problems there?
no degeneration or anything?

I would definitely get some other opinions and have the MRI films read/looked at by another tech or the new drs.
sometimes things get missed--
and sounds like you blood work wasn't followed up on properly.