hello doxie and welcome to neurotalk ... sorry to hear about all that your going through ... nt is noted for having alot of supportive and helpful people ... check out these links and also any of the other forums and post where you feel comfortable ... again ... welcome
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum10.html chronic pain forum
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum92.html tramatic brain injury and post concussion forum
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/index.php index to all the different forums