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Originally Posted by Fogbrain
Copper,
I, too, have found cognitive therapy to be of the greatest help with anger/rage/frustration. I wholeheartedly agree that semantics are important.
Yes, even after all these years I have my inner rage moments. I just don't beat myself up over it like I used to. And I do my best to let my wife know when I'm having a "head-banging" moment so she knows it may not be a good time to speak to me. She and I know I'll be back in a while to a better mood. I just have to go to a quieter space and have a little talk with myself. The quality of self-talk is of the utmost importance.
No, it isn't easy. But no tumors yet from holding it in.  |
thanks for the reply.
I am still beating myself up over my anger. Its hard to accept changes in myself. Something a teacher of mine said has helped also.
He reminded me that I wasnt choosing this anger and that it was merely a symptom of my injury.
Much like having a cough with a cold. I wouldnt beat myself up for coughing when I had a cold....so I shudnt beat myself up for being emotional with a brain injury.