B2Y, I adjust each time something new gets taken away, or added to my burden.
I gripe a little, and then realize need to adjust my *attitude* because that's the ONE thing I can control.
and sometimes even THAT needs a leetle Rx assistance.
![Embarrassment](images/smilies/redface.gif)
![Stick Out Tongue](images/smilies/tongue.gif)
so, there isn't ONE big adjustment to aim for, but a whole series of small ones. all along the way.