Hey Dave~ Over 50 here too, and I really liked your post. I tend to get hurt feelings really easy, but noticed after the passing of my dear Mother, that I cry more often. I agree that a good wailing has been good for me at times. I was so sad and frustrated after my Mom passed, that I could just look at something of hers and cry. Now, I find that I can also laugh at the good times we had.

I found out from her Hospice Soc wker that tears really can be cleansing and therapeutical. And, as far as laughing?? You bet!!! A good hardy laugh is amazing for the spirit. A couple of wks ago, a board bud visited me and we laughed so hard all wkend, that even days later, my face still hurt when I grinned.

Crying or laughing?? I say whatever makes a person feel that their stress is lessoned, works for me. Oh, and I don't think a man crying lessons his masculinity at all. I've seen my own DH tear up many a time. I think being able to feel better through a hearty laugh or a good cry can't be all bad.

*tissue???? Take care Dave.