A lot of what you say rings true - depending on how you interpret it. But I think it's important to draw a very clear line between learning to think and learning WHAT to think. Plant the seed firmly, and shower it with nutrients and love. But let it grow to fruition on it's own.

Oh, and BTW, I don't think a true spiritual believer gets angry when their Object of worship is defamed. The true believer simply feels sad for the one doing the defaming.