Well, I just got a call from my grandmother not too long ago. As we were talking, my grandmother casually mentions that my sister got married in June of this year. Of course I wasn't invited.
My sister and I haven't spoken in about 4 years now because of a falling out and issues which I now understand come from partially from the medications I was on and partially from undiagnosed Bipolar Disorder. Last year I tried to make amends by sending her a letter. I didn't have any high hopes for immediate reconciliations or anything but maybe a segway into talking again slowly. Well, I gave her my address and phone number and let her make the next move. Nothing happened. And at the time I totally understood that.
Now that I have found out after the fact that I was not even told about the wedding I am hurt. I didn't mind not being invited, but not being told....that is another story.
Do I have a right to be hurt? I'm not angry but it does bother me that my family totally forgot about me.
Another victim of CP I guess.