((Koala)) I agree, you didn't have a very good leader! I have never been to one, but I am trying to find the courage to go to my first one on Tuesday

Alffe, I would have to say the ONLY reason I am even thinking of going, is because the group is run by survivors. All the groups in New Hampshire seem to be run this way. Everyone in the room has lost a loved one to suicide. If I wanted a professionals opinion, I would go to therapy. Peer groups, I would think would always work best. One has to know the pain, to truly understand it. IMHO