hello and welcome to neurotalk ... sorry to hear about all that your going through ... i have listed a few links were you should be able to get more specific answers for your concerns ... by no means are you limited to these forums ... please check out all the others and post where you feel most comfortable ... i hope to see you around ...
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com ... link to the general listings
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum13.html ... link to gluten sensitivity/celiac disease
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum44.html ... link to the autoimmune diseases (lupus included)
again ...