great big hugss HUGSSSSSSSSS dear....so many of us understand...I too understand the when did I get fatter and older too...hmmmmmm
hugsssss
I have troubles too, with see sometimes people see me moving around so fast and furious at my work place, then later I could be limping and weak, and then they dont know what to think....plus without a dx....to say well my disability is ........... that makes it tough at times.
Just keep focusing on what I CAN Do, and try to do it well, and enjoy time with the family as much as I can....

(still wishing I didnt have to work so much)
hugss and I understand hun, sarah