I think the way they went about it was very rude and abrupt.

I would tell them to keep the layaway ticket and give the tricycle to their son as their gift.....you'll get him your own gift. If they can dish it out they should be able to take it.

My boys and I have adopted a new Christmas tradition this year. We are not buying gifts for each other.....we're sponsoring three senior citizens who otherwise wouldn't get anything. We promised no "surprises" for each other but instead to get what the seniors put on their list and then a couple more things as "extras" for them. What they listed as their "wants" are nothing but mere necessities of life....things we all take for granted (slippers, robe, shoes). It's very eye-opening.

Like I explained to my boys....we do alot for each other all throughout the year and we don't need to feel obligated to buy gifts for each other just for the sake of having something to give. Christmas has just gotten way too commercialized for me and the whole concept of it is lost. Children shouldn't be penalized....but adults could do something more productive with their money and gifts....such as giving to a charity or sponsor someone less fortunate.