Gaz, I thought the same thing! I only had my mom's parents also. My dad's mom passed 9 years before I was born and his dad passed when I was 8. I do remember him but not a lot.

But, I was very close to my mom's parents. My Gram was like a mother to me. She passed in Aug 1996. Like you I have never been to her grave except the day we burried her. I miss her every single day. I was with her when she passed. She was my best friend.

Christmas is hard for we would always gather at her house on Christmas Eve for Sheppards Pie and her famous cheesecake. Christmas Eve just isn't the same since she has been gone.

But, I have learned that she is still with me, right DM? When I need her I just need to talk to her and she is right there on my right shoulder.