Alffe, that's just SO not right on so many different levels.
How ungrateful they all sound. And full of pride. Are you sure you're talking about folks who go to church? Shaking head here. No wonder you're not in the Christmas spirit yet! I sure don't blame you for being upset.
I hope your Pastor finds that her new group of parishioners treat her much better. Sorry you are losing someone who has helped you so much, Alffe.
God bless both of you.