Hi Heather, and thanks. It does help to get more information..always!
Reed saw the PM doc yesterday, and unfortunately, one of his leads had already moved slightly, so he wasn't happy. Now, Reed is on very strict restrictions, and the doc wants him to have a sleep study to make sure he doesn't have restless leg syndrome. I feel like it's probably the RSD, or possibly meds causing the jerking, but we'll see.
His blood pressure was also very high, near stroke level. So, we are making an appointment with his GP to see about high bp meds.
The doc said the peeing problem could be med related, but could also be from constipation. Apparently, Reed is full . (I always knew he was full of poo)

So, he's on laxatives and then we'll see where that takes him and if the problem is still there. I agree that narcotics plays a role, because I remember after a car accident that ripped the muscles in my neck and shoulder, I was on narcotic pain meds and had a really hard time peeing also.
Thanks again for your input and I hope you're doing well.

Rita