I agree Abbie. I am trying to decipher that question myself. I figure if I can figure this out, that question of why people don't reach out, because I have such a hard time doing it myself, then that information can be used to help others. Maybe it needs to be brainstormed. I know there are plenty of people around who could contribute ideas. If we can get them too?? Maybe it could make a real difference. I'm still working on myself, trying to come up with some 'key.' ........