Cherie, thanks for the explanation. It helped clear it up. I can be aggressive when necessary although it takes a lot of energy and I feel like I'm giving away or using up my power.

And I can be passive. I tend to react passively when I have no power or I have no control. In this mode I'm gathering information and as we all know, you can't hear while you're talking.

Here's one. Are narcissistic people type A or are type A narcissistic?