Everyone so far, has 'family' on their list. I guess that might be #1 if you add things up.

#1. DH
#2. my father
#3. my grandma (My mom died in 1967 & she came to help raise me & my siblings (ages 9,11,12 & 13). She was born in 1903 so...can you imagine you
doing that when you are/were 64)
#4. my kids
#5. a home