FYI-
I just did another stim on my wife this morning (Thanksgiving Day) using the new items I had obtained after having the issues from before of painful shocks. I used a new type of electrode which actually had its own sponge inserts, along with a electrode conducting gel. While a little messier, no problems with the conductivity and no side effects!

So, for what it is worth, I will be trying this same protocol for the next four day to see how it does. Again, I will update on how my wife reacts and also update on the procedure and techniques soon.