I'm sorry your feelings were hurt, Erin

, and I know this is not the first time she's done something like this.
She has brain damage though, and even if she wasn't on steroids, she's very unpredictable. Well, she is actually quite predictable

. . . just not in a "normal" sort of way.
The only thing you can change is your reaction to her behavior. She is not going to EVER get better, and will likely only get worse as she ages . . . so try not to let it upset you too much.
Cherie
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