I know what you mean.....people who don't have MS just don't (and never will) "get it". I don't even try to explain myself anymore....not even to family members. It's just not worth it. I feel like I have to justify every little ache and pain (some of which are not even MS related).
Those close to me know I have MS.....if they want to dissect my every sx than let them.....I don't have the energy to!!