*grin...it didn't really do much for me either Nikki but I figure they are the professionals and it might help someone.

How about this............

First Holiday

We lit a candle today,
To fill the empty place
where you should be
but aren't...

I stood with my hands cupping the flame
and felt the heat...
the energy...

empty space between the fire and flesh
Nothing visible
Nothing to see..

And yet I knew it was there -
the energy touched my skin.
And so it was with you today.

Nothing visible -nothing to see.
And yet I knew you were here.
Your energy touched my heart.

by Sandy Goodman Author of Love Never Dies

for Nikki .......