Tami, the hardest thing in my life is not taking my pain out on those around me.... especially when they're inconsiderate, or do something thoughtless.

I pray for self-control, I try to keep busy, and I try to be forgiving.

and I WORK at keeping my mouth shut, telling myself: "If you STILL wanna say THAT in ten minutes, then go ahead, but at least catch your breath first, and DEFINITELY phrase it more politely!"

at this moment... hubby is blasting some music, and I'm having a hot flash, my back is aching like fury, my feet are burning and zinging, and I've got some TN zapping my left ear and cheekbone.

takes ALL I've got to not SCREAM... expecially because he's making dinner, and someone who wants to EAT should not yell at the cook !!

anyway, I get what you mean, and here's a BIG ol' hug (but gently, gently, with two sore backs in the equation!)



where's Jessie Sue when ya need her ??

please, somebody, send me an ABBA-free zone... another five minutes of Dancing Queen, and Take a Chance on Me, and Mama Mia, and I just might commit ceremonial disembowelment upon a certain somebody !!

help !!