Hi again, I forgot to mention that stress is slightly more complicated than the obvious stress of being yelled at.

It can be stressful if you want to do things and can't because of your health.

There was a book a couple years ago, The Status Syndrome, that talked about how people who were unable to lead fulfilling lives died younger... I forget exactly how it was stated, but if someone could not do or get things they wanted over a long period of time, then they had reduced life expectancies.

It's a good book, I should go find it and quote to you exactly.

But, my point is that you may be leading a very stressful life and not giving yourself credit for surviving all that stress.

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