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Originally Posted by firemonkey
That is so cruel telling you you have no right to grieve (((((((Teri)))))))
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Originally Posted by Mari
Dear Teri,
I am very sorry that you lost your sister.
You are having a tough time if you do not get to grieve the way you want to.
Mari
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Originally Posted by Mrs. Bear
OMT, I am appauled. They have absolutly no right to tell you not to greive. Holy Crap. What an insensitive butt head.
I think of you too. I am always happy to see you post. I think that you and Tim are always so brave to open up when you can.
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Thank you, firemonkey, Mari and Mrs. Bear (and all of you who have felt it in your hearts, but did not write it out)....
I have finally lost the frozen brain of numbing emotional trauma and begun to be able to talk about what happened. It is so terribly cruel, my being unable to grieve because of the viciously raging verbal abuse and the horrifyingly easy passive-aggressive abuse, as well as the total lack -of any of them- to acknowledge that I was one of them - someone who has lost an immediate family member, someone I used to hold on my lap.
Thank you all for your words.
Teri