(((Doxie)))...we were posting at the same time. I think your words were very well said, and very wise indeed. You are in a tough situation. But you sound like a strong, and wise person to me. We need each other. Especially when we dont have anyone 'out there' that we can open up to and feel safe about doing it. I am in a similar situation. Maybe we can share more in a pm.
please keep sharing....