Thank you Twink, Nik-key, Goofy and Alffe, ....and yes Alffe.... I am worn out a lot of the time at present.

At the moment we have appointments almost every single day, and some days we have several. We're running around constantly, and it's getting very time consuming a well as exhausting.

I know it won't last forever, and I'm happy to do anything I can to help DH through this period, but as you can imagine this new stroke has set us both on our derrieres, and it's put a bit more of a strain on our already strained emotions.

DH is so scared that he's going to die just a his father did when he had a similar operation a few years back, and then died from a stroke.