LOL Yeah, sure, go ahead and list them. You might want to start another thread to do it so that people don't see this thread and think, "well, I posted on that and I'm not posting again."
Hey, you're going to find a LOT of people who were the "go to" ones for family and friends. It's tough being on the "I can't do it all" side of things. Learning how to say, "No" is a real challenge but once mastered is your saving grace! Sometimes you just have to think of YOU!
Oh and "whining" here is just fine. We get it. So whine away!