A few thoughts Evonne..First of all, good to hear from you..Second, I have been with Harley for almost 2 months taking care of her.. Ive lost about 20 lbs, that I desprerately needed to lose, and I am strong and doing very well with symptoms, and I attribute that to being active in tending to her needs during daily intervals when she cannot walk, and/or move very well..My 2 cents for what its worth..I think being a care partner is great physical excercise, as well as mentally and emotionally rewarding..Gotta be careful with the back though..Ive never moved people around before, but thank God she is only 5' 2" and lightweight..I can see where moving heavier folks around would require some expertice