i know what you mean too.
i've had to be strong to keep up my activities of daily living.
sometimes grocery shopping and even folding the laundry seems like too much.

i have some good friends where i live now and know they would be here for me in an emergency. my bro too. but they have families and work so i basically have to do all for myself.

even when i dealt with my breast cancer i did it pretty much by myself.
but, having friends to talk to and to call me meant everything. even my far away family watched over me long distance.

i wonder if your local MS society and/or your pcp might have some ideas we're not thinking of in terms of help or planning.

you're definitely not alone. thanks for bringing this up.
as long as we have friends here and people to bounce ideas and problems off of we're lucky.