You guys know how hard its been for me to talk to my husband Dale.

Well I got up my nerve last week to tell him how much is on the credit
cards. Or at least the two really big ones. $7,000.00

The two littler ones I really didn't know the total off the top. But
when he asked, and honestly it was almost 4 days later. He waited
to calm down and not be so upset. WOW

I knew the total I had called one and had received the other in the
mail. Which ends up being 700.00

I also have two store ones. That I have almost paid off less that 100.00

So anyway he hasn't decided what he will do. I asked for a loan to help
pay them. I really plan to give him back the money, unless he give
it to me and says don't worry about it.

We had some words about a couple of other things. Such as he has
this thing about going out and buying cars. While gosh, you can help
me pay off a credit card instead of buying a car. Its not like you shouldn't
be helping pay for Derrick's things.

He doesn't go most places with us. So unless I ask ahead, or take a check
from our joint check book. He doesn't.

Thanks, I hope I dont sound like I'm whinning

Donna